How in the world do you get twin brothers who are 2 years old to stop fighting constantly? We spank their hands, we take away toys, we've tried time outs and stern voices... but these two seem invulnerable to everything we throw at them. What works best for you guys?
We really do need advice. They love each other so much but at the same time, you can blink and the'll be fighting, stealing each others toys, etc...
We're very open to old-school and new-age tactics. As long as they work and they don't damage their self esteem we're game! :)